Many Opportunities Lie

"Don't worry darling! When one door closes the other always remains open!" These were the words of my father when He found me crying in my room... I was crying because of the fact that I didn't perform upto my parents' expectations in Competitive exams! I was always thought to be intelligent not just by my parents but by many others....and that one thing made me a lot more sad then I should have been!Actually sometimes when I look back to that time I feel other people felt so much interested in what I do!

Now Let's go back to some flashback...... Ahh there it is! The time when my 10th result was out! Everyone was so happy! I secured 92% marks as never thought! It was a surprise for everyone including me too.. Whatever it was it felt good! it was three years back in 2009. It was a big time for me i felt like I'm on the ninth cloud and still felt some kind of nervousness...Because it was time I had to Finally decide what i would choose...maths Or Biology...I left no other option to myself because 10th class made me love these two unconditionally! And after pondering over both the subjects and by consulting a lot of people I finally decided to take maths! It was Finally time for me to start studying like a Bookworm! (which I had never done in my life and god knows what helped me in my 10th boards). You know when we are in 10th our teachers and parents tell us "Just work Hard this year and have fun rest of your life" When you enter 11th everyone is like "Just work hard these 2 years and have fun rest of your life" And then when you enter engineering they are like "Just work hard these 4 years and enjoy rest of your life PG will be fun!" I don't know what they try to do...But whatever it is they fail in most of the cases....

So yeah We started with coaching really good I worked hard for two weeks and then I was like "i can understand all this really well...I don't need to work that hard" And everything worsened.... I mean i reallly understood everything but forgot that I will forget all that soon and to remember it i need to Read it over and over again...My percentage fell down and I took it negatively Like every other teen...My parents were really worried..Me too but they thought I didn't because i didn't work for it at all...

Finally When The 12th came and The end of it was near... I really felt like I was gonna get a nervous break Down...I mean i was not that bad at studying and learning But everybody built so much pressure on me...my family, friends, relatives, teachers...everybody had their own Expectations My coaching sir told me he expected me to clear AIEEE and I could do that! But the problem was that I wasn't good with competitive exams I always get nervous, or tick the wrong one, or do any such kind of mistake...but this time it was worse! The first paper leaked out and the second paper was really really really tough...twisted questions and all and I was exhausted by studying in the break of 3 hours.....OMG! i ruined it all!!!! I felt like the world's end!

But still MP-PET (Madhya Pradesh Pre Engineering Test) was left as an option with many good colleges....But i never knew what my mom had in mind! I didn't make it to the best colleges...But some other good colleges in that exam But my mom thought she would keep me in my own city in one college....It was a good college but Mostly people criticized it you know it's said "ghar ki murgi daal barabar"? In the same way It was popularized by everyone in the city! I was against my parents' decision first...they tried to explain the reason a lots of times but I didn't listen to them! Finally I made up my mind that I'll go with their decision and entered the college...And thought they were right..It was not that bad! Actually It was better than my expectations...And i still had the chance to study hard and get good ranks here and study hard for GATE and CAT and do PG from a better college!

I could have taken a drop and maybe after it i would have ruined it far more or even chances were their that I would have improved But who cares...there are Still opportunities for me Lying ahead have you ever heard "BETTER LATE THAN NEVER"? Same is what i feel now! People read stories about famous people and their famous failures they praise them for a time and then forget it! Why not implement the thought? Failures always lead to success. THE END

You know when one door closes on people's face they think it's the end of the world...and feel like dying. Always remember Dying is never an option. God has always planned something for you and maybe it is better than your own wishes! Never lose hope and strive ahead...Work hard and one day You will acheive What you always wanted! Suicide is never an option! whenever you feel that way always consult someone wiser than you...Maybe not your parents but any other elder person.

I have seen many cases where people cry when their result turns out bad...and when i tell them other options they are Don't even Try to consider them...I don't know what they feel about them..But the point is no job is big or small "keechad mein hi kamal ugte hain" Right????

Even if I would have failed in engineering I would have been left with other options Like B.Sc. and with that i could enter research field...and do some good for the society...Similarly their is never an end If you fail In medical Or In any other field just search for a ray of hope and You will be guided...

"Life is the way you take it....Just Always Stay Postive"

Confession Of a "Blessed Daughter"

When I was born It's obvious I was too small to know that I am a girl or a boy...But my parents knew very well....I was there first child and for my family I was the second child...the second Girl child! Many people would have been disappointed to see a girl child "AGAIN". But this was not the case with my family...They celebrated my birth... And I think God was too happy with my family for this and thus blessed it with three more girl children after me...!!!



"Kitne dukh ki baat hai" a man said this to my Grandmother...."Kya matlab?" She clearly knew what he wanted to say and was filled with anger but still tried to confirm (she thought may be he'll understand he said wrong) "I mean Fourth time a girl! That's sad to hear" He said without hesitation....My grandmother was filled with anger to hear this statement of his! My Aunt (Chachi) was blessed with a girl as her first child. "You know why I have four girls in my house? because even God knows that who respects the gift of God! Now i would like you to never come at my house again because i don't want my kids to ever see your face" That was my grandmother's Words in anger! I totally love her for saying that! Mostly we see Elder people asking for a boy child...Expecting a boy child from their daughter-in-laws all the time But my grandmother was different. She knew that bot are 'equal' and believed in the same logic! She always says "humare ghar hi paanch betiyan kyun ayi pata hai? kyunki bhagwan bhi janta hai ki bacchiyon ki kadr kaun karega". Not only for her own daughters and grand daughters she is that way...but even for her daughter-in-laws she has the same feeling. she treats them as her own daughters and loves them. She has a special place for my mother I don't know the reason but she does....Even my mother and father had a love marriage and it was 'Inter-Caste' but she was never against this marriage.....My grandmother is one of A kind woman that anyone would love as a mother, a mother in law, a friend, a wife, a daughter, a sister or any other role...Since my grandfather died before i was born she is playing the roles of both in our family. She has a special soft corner for me.... even my mother doesn't know the reason maybe because i was the second girl child and maybe she had the fear many will criticize it but she loves me a lot and my other sisters too. She is well educated herself and has struggled a lot to teach her 5 children and made them capable to give excellent education to their children. She has taught me lessons of struggle in life to achieve what you want...to love endlessly, to share, and to be a good example for everyone.














(my bua and my smallest sister are still missing in this pic)

As far as my Bua (my father's sister) is concerned. She is the one who has the most love for all of us! she is elder than my father but still unmarried and I don't think she will ever marry anyone....She believes we 5 our her own daughters and has in store endless love and care. She is the one who has pampered us as well as scolded us too. She is the one who always is there to fulfill every wish of ours and she is the one who will scold us first for every mistake of ours too. Just let your words of wish come out of your mouth and the wish has been turned into reality by her! I never understand from where she has acquired so much love for us girls but she never looks dissatisfied with her life! Like every other member of my family she has a short temper as well and i am afraid of it too.....but as soon as she gets angry she forgets it too...!


These are the two ladies in the house I appreciate a lot! I have learned a lot from them. My family i.e. Me , my father, my mother and my sister don't live in my hometown Because of dad's job in other city but every time we visit there we don't feel like we are outside our home. I don't know if the situation had been different if we stayed there and I even don't care about wondering over it but I just love the way everything is. Both mu uncles and aunts are so much loving and caring Have surprises for me and my sisters everytime we visit there and we have a lot of fun there. They treat us as their own kids...never differentiate always have store of love that never gets empty...what more will a person long for?

My mother and father are just superb...I don't have any words to say anything about them. I just can't thank them enough. They have raised me and my sis better than people raise their boys! I know there are always some restrictions Indian parents make to girls...and they have made them too...But I don't complain about it now! They have given us everything we ever wanted...Never demanded anything but just to "Study Well". What more a girl will ever want? My parents are both teachers by profession but never told us if they didn't have enough resources to fulfill our wishes they just did their best every time! Their marriage is Love marriage "Inter Caste" and mostly such marriages don't work out But this case was different! there marriage is just not successful but very famous as the Greatest Pair too.... Not just for us but for others too they have the same love and kindness...And that makes them my "Hero". i can never see tear in their eyes and for that reason I even broke up with a person I loved a lot. He was my BF for 2 years but as my mother came to know about him she cried a lot. She didn't like him and for her sake I broke up.... i don't know it's right or wrong but I can never hurt her. I only have one wish that even after marriage I can live with them and if not I keep doing something for them all the time. They have been role models for many of their students and I am one of them!

I feel proud to have such a great family and I call myself "Blessed". I pray to god that In every birth of mine I am blessed with the same family over and over again.

People say "ladkiyan baap ke kandhon par bhoj k samaan hoti hain" but my family doesn't think that way they have done everything to teach us and to make us capable of supporting ours and their needs Now it's our turn to do our best and give them what they need. And I promise I will do my best Always!

I have only one prayer at the end to god! please bless ever girl with the same family as mine.... I don't know why people kill girls but they really have a special something and that is what i have figured out by seeing every girl and woman i have encountered in my 19 years on this planet. Please give people the wisdom to know the true value of a girl. Let them know how blessed they are. "Ek beta shayad apko apke dukh ke samay chhod ke chala jaye par ek beti humesha apke sath khadi rahegi"