A Girl's Letter

Dear Men,

In this letter I haven't the slightest Idea what I'm gonna write But whatever it will be will be straight From my heart!

I have tried to open my heart out to all you guys since a long time but as you all may be knowing you make it so difficult for all us girls to do that by your pet dialogue "WE ARE THAT WAY...WE ARE BUILD TO BEHAVE THAT WAY" so I would first like to say if you say what you behave with us is because of that Testosterone then I must tell you that even girls have a rush of that hormone but they don't stare at your private the way you stare at our privates. You would never know what we feel like when you stare us like you are gonna eat it up! We're not walking pieces of meat that you can devour. That totally makes us feel like kicking between your legs.



The second thing I want to talk about to you is that you people "judge" girls on their beauty....Grade them, rank them! Who the hell has given you the right to do that! You are not the one who has given us birth. "If you want a girl as beautiful as Angelina Jolie Then first you too should look like Brad Pitt" First look at yourself in the mirror then come to judge us on our size, weight, color, face or anything that you consider. I've been through times when I pass by some boys with my gang and see boys choosing which girl they like...I mean WTF! First ask us if you are worthy to be chosen! It's just pathetic...

One of the most important thing i wanted to mention... Actually not mention But I have a question "Have you got any respect for feelings?" You treat girls like they are nothing but just dolls...Play with them and when you get bored leave them! I won't say bring your Sisters and mothers in between but yeah What if you were a girl and someone did that to you? Just think about it.... You would write thousands of quotes on girls about how they broke your heart and blah blah but when it comes to you a girl's heart doesn't matter at all right? Sex is one part of love but it isn't the whole as most of you think...Actually for some of you love is just nothing For you only sex matters...And you even get "Bored".



Yes I will say my parents ARE afraid to let me hangout late till night...they are afraid when they see me texting to a boy....My mom is afraid when i choose a sleeveless dress or a short dress...She is afraid when I style more or make a new hairstyle or I wax or i go to parlor ..She is afraid that one of you is there who will break my heart and yes I too am afraid of that. I am afraid to eat a lollipop or an ice cream or a cream roll....I am afraid to even walk on the streets...I am afraid one of you will pass by touching me making me feel uncomfortable. I am afraid to even look straight..i am afraid i might catch you trash talking about me or my friend or might catch you giving those dirty expression...I have many more fears But i would end here. Maybe this would be enough...Maybe it will never be enough but i have just one wish that you people get a life. that I or any other girl would have to ever worry about such pathetic things ever.

Sincerely,
Just one more (un)afraid girl.

[P.S.: I got the idea to write such post when I saw this article: dear fellow folks on 18 till i die I'm following this blog. i hope you like my version Though I can never touch her writing standard :P]

They Have The Same Dreams...the Same Emotions...the Same Desires

"I know I have made a mistake! But what I did was because I loved him", She cried! "Is he not the culprit in all this?", she asked! But no one answered. The society called her a Whore. Just because she was pregnant. 2 months ago she never thought this could ever happen to her! She was totally in love with this boy! But the dark fact lying beneath this relationship, she didn't realise!!!!

"She is too sexy! I just want her! Bas ek baar mil jaye toh maza aa jaye Zindagi ka", he told his friends. "So get her! I bet she will fall for you!Dude you are the EXPERT" & she did! she made the biggest mistake of her life! His Lust won and she was called a Slut! These two words composed of the same 4 alphabets arranged in different manner changed that girls life for once and for all! The society left her no option but to Die!!! No one criticised the boy! Nothing ever changed for him! He still is a playboy! And he doesn't care!





This cruel Male dominated society only criticises women for everything and guys for nothing! Why is it so? Do guys don't have any hand in all this? Just because girls are affected doesn't mean only she is responsible! They just did it all in love! I know it's all wrong. But what can she do??

"Do you love me??" "Yes baby more than myself" "Then why are you saying no" "It's just i am a little afraid!" "Don't be afraid! i am here! You trust me na!" "Yes darling..." This one YES!!!! Only this yes is responsible???? Not that convincing??? Why don't guys understand that love doesn't lie in sex. Love is above it all!!

Actually Society thinks girls are responsible because they wear small dresses. Short skirts, shorts, Capri, even jeans. But why? If these dresses are made it is natural for girls to get attracted to wear them! They wear all these dresses for their love for them and their satisfaction. Not to attract boys!

Few days ago...I was watching "Gumraah" a show telecast on [V] channel. It shows how teenagers of today make mistakes and ruin their life for forever! In one of it's episodes the told how a girl was gang rapped by a gang of boys from a small city...just because she wore small clothes. They had the mentality that girls wear small clothes to attract boys! One small truth they fail to realize that it will ruin her life for forever!!! WHY can't they think before they act? That girl cried "please don't do this" But they didn't listen! Was that a mistake of that girl? No! but the society thought so! And because of that reason her parents were ashamed and didn't complain in the police!

Actually such a mentality in boys is induced by the society itself! Their parents and relatives tell them that girls wear such clothes to attract boys! Now the whole blame comes on society!

Every next day we hear stories of rapes, molestations, Eve teasing, etc. But nothing major action takes place to stop them! In one episode of Gumraah Another Mind boggling story was shown. It was centralized on a girl whose family was very strict! And because of this reason she never talked to any boy. Once a boy in order to propose her gave her a letter she refused the proposal but by mistake kept that letter in her bag! Her brother saw that letter and started blackmailing her! He kept a proposal in front of her! He said that He'll never tell anyone if she kept satisfying his needs! And we all know what his need was! HE even brought his friends home to satisfy 'their needs'. The girl once told her mother about all this! The mother couldn't find any other option and Poisoned her!

Who's to be blamed in all this? The brother? The girl? Or the mother? Or the cruel society that was responsible for that girl's and mother's fear! the society needs to change....We need to change! Only then girls will be able to feel safe in this Nation!!! 

India is rich in it's culture and heritage! Hindus pray to goddesses but fail to understand the importance of Women in real life! Only this awakening needs to be brought in the Society!

We need to ensure that girls feel free to live in this world!!! They don't live with an ever lasting fear in their hearts of being physically tortered by boys or by this cruel society!

My parents Are very strict! they don't allow me to go out with my friends! I used to get very angry about all this! Then they used to tell their pain to me! They told me that it was not them who stopped me! It was their fear...the fear of the cruel society and the Immature mankind! That could harm me!!! I don't blame them now! I really Don't!